When we are in these funny times it is hard to know whether you are on to a good thing or not. When do we turn around and say – ‘I am content’. This is where I want to be… its tough man. What if you are the kind of person that always strives for more… After all, people say professionally we should do that constantly – always looking for the next big thing.
What about in a relationship. Whether it be the other half or even the family. How far do you go? Is it reciprocated? I guess it is like being in a band. When do you write the most sublime album? When do you know you should quit as you are ahead. Has anyone? Apart from the self confessed perfectionists, Im sure most artists would say they have yet to write THE album. Surfers have never done it. The constant struggle, the search for the perfect wave. That moment when time stops and we know, they know, God knows, we all know… that it doesnt get better than this.
It could be all good – but in that small period of time when we experience a dip in our relationship, our good times; when we develop struggles; when we become frustrated with what we thought was the path we are on it makes us think ‘what if?’. It makes us loose focus in a way and look for alternatives. Then we may change the course of our paths because of a gut reaction. Patience is a virtue perhaps….
So, do we make the most of what we have? Do we develop what we know, what we experience and let that pave the way for us?
Ill have done is ask questions in this blog. I guess I have many and I have no answers. On we go…
Answers on a postcard or at the bottom of this blog.